When I was in junior high school,
something happened and it changes my life. I’ve lost a part of my life,
my parents decided to separate. I’m as a daughter should accept the very
bad decision ever.
Actually, I felt disappointed. They decided to separated because of my mother's
mistakes. My father get out from our house. Why they must do that? I can’t
speak anything, just crying all day long. I lost my father.
At the moment, that’s problem changed my life. I saw a different thing in my
house. At that time, I couldn’t saw my father everyday. I can meet him only on
the weekend. Actually, I want to scolded my mother because this all happened
because of her mistakes. I felt angry at the time. But I retrain my self,
because I realized that my mother unintentionally made that mistakes. From this
problem, I started thinking more positive and mature. I tried to solved this
problem more patient and positive.
One day, I tried to recover the situation. I had doubt but I keep trying.
Finally, I appealed my mother to apologize to dad. Believe or not, my father
forgive my mother. Although I has tried hard, but they still on their decisions
to separate.
I’ve lost a part of my life and my parents decided to separate. But from that
situation, I can know what is the importance of the integrity of a family. I
can learn about self esteem. Self esteem is not about when you’re very shy to
admit it. And sometime we have to accept the very bad things of life. Because
now I realize that god have another plan to make our life more better.